1.
Love is not self-evident. Love must
be defined and explained.
2.
God is love. We cannot properly define love without the
Triune God, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. In the end, there is only the love of God. Hell
will be a place of infinite hate. Heaven will be a place of infinite love. To
speak of love without speaking of God is like a blind man talking about the
glories of a Rembrandt painting. He may heard about the painting or even felt the painting, but he really has no idea what the painting is really about.
3.
Who this Triune God is, is not
self-evident. There are some remnants of God’s image in each man and each
woman. But these remnants are twisted. Therefore we cannot come to a definition
of God or love by looking into ourselves or at human relationships. We know God
from the Scriptures, the whole Scriptures. Thus to know what love is, we must
know who God is. To know who God is we must know the Bible. The only path to a
coherent definition of love is through the Bible. To speak of love without
speaking of the Bible is impossible.
4.
Every Christian believes they are
acting out of love. Therefore to tell a Christian that they must love someone
else is usually a waste of time. They
believe they do love them. The Christian who refuses to call homosexuality
a sin believes they are acting out of love. The Christian who tells every woman
they meet that they must wear skirts to their ankles also believes they are
acting out of love. The fire breathing legalist and the lesbian minister both
believe they are acting out of love. No-one believes they are acting out of hate.
This is true of most non-Christians as well, though there are some exceptions.
5.
Thus it is not enough to simply
say, “You are not being loving.” We must prove how their behavior is
inconsistent with the Biblical teaching on love. If they refuse to accept the
Bible’s definition of love then they are not interested in worshiping God. They
are only interested in worshiping their idol called “love.”
6.
Love is defined by the Bible. It is
not defined by our feelings or the feelings and/or perceptions of those in our community. People will not always feel loved, even when we show them love. We cannot expect people in our community to always
walk around saying what a loving church we are. Sometimes they will say this. Other times they
will call us hate mongers or bigots or traitors. Sometimes the community will say we love them
when we are just sleeping with them. Sometimes they will think we hate them
even when we are loving them. The Bible sets the criteria for love, not our
communities or critics.
7.
This does not mean we ignore our
critics. Many critics have good points. But those critics must be judged by
Scripture, not Scripture by the critics.
8.
Just because we can quote a Bible
verse, which justifies our position, does not mean we are actually loving God
and loving our neighbor. The motives behind our actions and words are as vital as the words and actions themselves. Love
is a biblical act or message linked with a biblical motivation for that action
or message. Sometimes the motivation is faithfulness to God. Sometimes it is
the desire to see someone repent and believe. Sometimes we say something
because we are defending God’s people against slander. There can be numerous
righteous motivations for doing things. Without righteous motivation, it cannot
be called love.
9.
To love God and our neighbor means
we must hate evil. We must speak with clarity and boldness against sin and
unrighteousness. To refuse to hate evil is to refuse to love God and our
neighbor. The one who loves sin hates God. If we love God then we bound to
rebuke men, women, and institutions who love sin. We can’t love God or our
neighbor if we don’t hate sin and evil. Biblical hatred is a prerequisite for
Christian witness and mission.
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