1.
Drink deep and long at the well of
God’s Word. Here we learn godliness, wisdom, and the path of righteousness.
a. "As we become more intimately
familiar with God’s Word in Scripture, we become more intimately familiar with
God, his ways, his habits, his characteristic reactions. We can pray according
to his will, finishing his sentences. This doesn’t come from looking over God’s
shoulder, but from diligent study of the Scripture, faithful participation in
worship and sacraments, the usual means by which God reveals himself and his
will to us." (Peter Leithart, From
Beyond the Veil, 177)
b.
But do not rely on random Bible
verses. Verses must be interpreted in context. God of course, can use random Bible verses, but that does not mean we should make it our habit to interpret God's Word this way.
c.
Make sure it is not sin. This means specific breaking of God’s
law. You can be sure sin is not God’s
will.
i.
What if something might be a sin,
but you are not sure? Here you should follow Romans 14:23. If your conscience is pricked, that is if you feel guilty, do not do it.
d.
Make sure you are loving God and
loving your neighbor. Examine your motives. Why are you doing what you are
doing? It is possible to make the right decision for the wrong reason.
2.
Pray over the decision, but do not
sit around until an answer comes in the mail. Pray over it and trust that God is going to answer your prayer. Don't pray over it until you get a lighting strike from Heaven telling you what to do.